A Mother’s Day Wish

By Stacey Bradford | May 8, 2009 |

What do I want for Mother’s Day this year? I’d like a really big hug from my daughter and flowers or maybe even earrings from my husband. But more importantly, I want all working moms (and dads too) to legitimately get the chance to ask their bosses for a little flexibility to spend more time with their families.

I just got off the phone with an executive at a Fortune 500 company who chairs the firm’s working parents group. At a recent seminar, a representative from HR reminded the employees of the many family-friendly policies available to them. But my contact told me many of the audience members don’t feel comfortable taking advantage of them in this economy. The collective feeling is that now is the time to work more hours, not fewer, if they want to keep their jobs.

Unfortunately, that’s how most of us feel these days. Leaving the office at 5:00 pm is sooo 2006. Instead, most of us are staying late and trying to get more face time with our bosses.

But I wonder if all of our extra effort and time is making us better employees? Ironically, we may not be more productive after all.

According to a recent study by Corporate Voices for Working Families, companies that provide their employees with flexible work options find their people are more productive, show increased loyalty, and are absent less often. And if you’re the type that likes to see statistics, a recent article in Industrial Relations: A Journal of Economy and Science, discusses how those productivity increases hit 10% in the pharmaceutical industry.

This information is hardly a revelation for anyone who has worked part-time. When I went back to work after having a baby, I was lucky enough to initially clock in just 20 hours a week. And you wouldn’t believe how much I managed to accomplish during that shortened work week. I did it by putting my head down and working every moment I was at the office instead of adding my two cents to the office gossip and reality TV banter. My daily web surfing was also nonexistent. I had a babysitter I had to get home to; I couldn’t afford to waste even a few minutes during the day. Here’s the kicker, not only was I incredibly efficient and productive, but I also wasn’t getting any benefits. That made me pretty cheap for management to keep around.

So here’s my suggestion to human resources departments across the country. Let your employees have flexible work schedules and take time off to be with their kids. Not only will they likely get the same amount of work done, but you may even be able to pay them a little less and not have to lay off as many workers during this recession. And that’s a Mother’s Day gift we could all enjoy.

Mother’s Day Poems image by Mothers&Daughters, CC 2.0

 
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    RGparkmom

    05/09/09 | Report as spam

    RE: a mother's day wish

    Completely agree: you work more efficiently (and show more loyalty, yes!) when your employer demonstrates they understand your family life is important to you. It would be a dream come true if they'd see things this way!

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    po-money

    05/10/09 | Report as spam

    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    I couldn't agree more. The days when I know I need to leave at a certain hour are always the most efficient. So why not make the reason that you have to leave be that you have to spend more time with your family -- otherwise what are we working for? European countries seem to have figured this out many years ago -- when will the US catch up?

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    yalta2

    05/11/09 | Report as spam

    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    Amen. In this day and age of 24/7 accessibility, I find the expectation of upper managment has changed. If you have a cell phone with email, you are expected to be checking it and responding after work, on days off, and on weekends. And we wonder why the younger generations spend their time in front of TVs and computers...Why shouldn't they? They are just doing what they see their parents do at home. And their parents are so pre-occupied with their blackberry's that they often don't notice. I truly believe it is a perfect storm of technology, a bad economy and a desire to succeed. The sad part is that the cost to the family dynamic is rarely factored in by any business.
    I am lucky. I work for a group of companies that truly believes in a work/life balance, but if a portion of me didn't doubt this would last, I suppose I would run out and buy a blackberry or Iphone....

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    RGparkmom

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    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    yalta2, where do you work? (so I can apply!)

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    Stacey Bradford

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    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    @RGparkmom -- Couldn't agree with you more. Here's a link to Working Mother Magazine's 100 Best Companies. http://www.workingmother.com/?service=vpage/3214
    These firms are supposed to offer more family friendly policies than the average employer. Could be a good place to start your next job search.

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    Stacey Bradford

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    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    @patches - Sadly, I'm still waiting for American companies to learn a lot of things from their European competitors, including longer maternity leave policies for all mothers.

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    Stacey Bradford

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    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    @yalta2 -- Good point. I agree that the Blackberry (or any device for that matter) is hurting families. It's tough to tune out the office and focus on the kids when you know your boss could be sending you an email at any time.

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    NJ_born

    05/13/09 | Report as spam

    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    Case in point... I'm reading Moneywatch.com at 11pm as a way to take a five minute break from answering emails from the office!

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    Marni Danya

    06/11/09 | Report as spam

    RE: A Mother's Day Wish

    hi aunt stacey if your reading this...For mothers day i gave
    my mom "coupons" where one will say like mow the lawn
    and if she uses the coupon then I have to mow the lawn for
    free and I cannot argue. (I gave her 12) one for every
    month.

    From, Noah

    p.s. Woah! your hitting it big on cbs, woo hoo!

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Stacey Bradford

Stacey L. Bradford covers personal finance with a focus on issues that affect families. Her first book, The Wall Street Journal. Financial Guidebook for New Parents, hits shelves June 2009. She was previously an associate editor at SmartMoney.com for more than 10 years.

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Jolie Solomon

Jolie Solomon is sitting in for Stacey Bradford, who is on maternity leave. She has been a reporter, writer, or editor at many publications, including The Wall Street Journal, Newsweek, Fortune Small Business, More and the the late lamented Cincinnati Post.

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