Lynn O'Shaughnessy

The College Solution

Winning College Fair Etiquette

By Lynn O'Shaughnessy | Apr 17, 2009 |

It’s easy to waste time at a college fair.

At the large college fair I attended this week I saw lots of teenagers — thrilled to be skipping classes — wandering the convention center with their friends. Rarely did they stop to chat with one of the college reps.

But I’m not even talking about those kids. Even conscientious teenagers often fail to take advantage of the opportunity. So what should teenagers be doing at college fairs?

I asked some college reps, who were manning booths at the college fair, for some advice. Here is what they said….

Don’t walk in cold. “I wish students would come more prepared,” lamented Martin V. Vaughn, II, an associate admission director from Brandeis University. A teenager can typically get a list of college fair exhibitors ahead of time. Do a little research on some of the possibilities. You can learn a lot by using the federal College Navigator software, which I talked about in my last post.

Look beyond the obvious. The kids at the San Diego fair were double and triple parked in front of the UCLA booth. I just shook my head at that sight. You think Harvard’s tough to get in? UCLA rejects far, far more kids every year than any Ivy.

These UCLA worshippers were ignoring some amazing schools that were getting very little foot traffic. And guess what? Schools beyond the West Coast LOVE California kids and are willing to back up their desire with cash. And this isn’t just a California phenomenon. Teens willing to attend a college two or three time zones away can often pick up better aid packages.

Tell yourself this isn’t a competition. At these fairs, teenagers focus too much on “getting into” a school as if it were a winning lottery ticket, complained Stephanie DuPuis, assistant director of admissions at Salve Regina University in Newport, RI. Consequently, the kids ask questions about GPAs and SAT/ACT scores rather than trying to get a sense of whether a school might be a good academic fit.

Alex Gano, an admission counselor at Vanderbilt University, shared the same gripe. “I hate when students ask about GPAs,” he complained. High schools, he explained, weight GPAs so differently that it’s nearly impossible to provide an answer without knowing about a high school’s policies.

Ask relevant questions. Here’s a variation on a question that all the admission reps I talked to say they wish they’d hear more often:

I am interested in ______ (fill in the blank with an academic major). Could you tell me about that academic offering at your school?

Sounds ridiculously simple, but most kids never think to ask.

 
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    MakingConversation

    04/17/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Winning College Fair Etiquette

    At a College Fair, teens can use the opportunity to "try out" some of their questions with a few of the "lonely" College Reps - where no one else is lined up.This gives the teen practice in making conversation with an admissions person. Even if the school isn't on their "top schools" list; they may find out that it a good fit. The college rep may also be new to promoting the school- or feel neglected - and want to see how their responses actually sound. Of course, if there is a line, the student should not dominate the rep's time, "trying out" innumerable questions. Move aside and let someone else ask a question. Learn by listening.

    If teens practice asking questions when it doesn't count, they will become far more comfortable when it does.

    I started a company www.makingconversation.com to assist teens with these conversational skills. It's not always easy for teens to speak with adults, especially when they need to talk about themselves; but it can be learned! Use the College Fair as an opportunity to prepare and practice, so you can converse effectively later on, if you are fortunate enough to get a college interview. Being confident can help you avoid getting too stressed out.

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    The College Solution

    04/18/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Winning College Fair Etiquette

    Wonderful suggestions on how to make the best use of a college fair. I love the idea of teenagers talking to reps at a college fair as a way to get better prepared for the real college interviews.

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Lynn O'Shaughnessy

Lynn O'Shaughnessy is a financial journalist and the author of a critically acclaimed book, The College Solution: A Guide for Everyone Looking for the Right School at the Right Price. She has been a contributor to such publications as BusinessWeek, USA Today, Money Magazine, Medical Economics, The New York Times, Consumer Reports MoneyAdvisor, The Chronicle of Philanthropy, AARP: The Magazine and Kiplinger

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